another question about relationships

I've never been good with relationships at all. Is it normal for all of a sudden that she wants girls night out, but everytime i want to go out she don't want to go anywhere with me.  I don't think that is normal is it.  I know the councilor said that there is nights where it should be couples night just not single nights.  Something just don't seem right I just can't figure it out yet. does any body of any ideas.